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Four Ukrainian women gave harrowing accounts of how Russia’s full-scale invasion of their homeland changed their lives forever as Friends of Europe launched the Ukraine Initiative to sustain international support for Ukraine and its struggle to defend European freedom against tyranny before the second anniversary of the onslaught.
The initiative aims to put together a robust coalition of influential partners and advocates, drawing on Friends of Europe’s extensive global network of trustees, European Young Leaders and other foreign policy practitioners, to combat ‘Ukraine war fatigue’ in the West and highlight the urgent need to give the Ukrainian people the military, financial and economic support to prevail.
A student, a teacher, a restaurant manager turned volunteer, and a neo-natal specialist and university teacher recounted at the online event how the Russian attack had destroyed homes, killed neighbours, upended schools, dislocated families and plunged them into tragedy. The dialogue was part of Friends of Europe’s “Do not normalise the war” campaign, drawing attention to the tragic anniversary with a series of articles, podcasts and events.
Maryna Ovcharenko, a university student from Kharkiv whose home was devastated in a Russian rocket attack in June 2022, killing 10 neighbours, appealed to Europeans to keep sending arms to Ukraine for their own sake. “Russia will not stop. Give us the weapons and we will fight because now we are the only obstacle between you and them,” she said.
Olha Tsaruk, a middle-school teacher, described her feeling of guilt when she had to leave her class in the eastern Kharkiv region to bring her three children to safety as Russian troops closed in. “Before the war feels like 1,000 years ago,” she said. She continued teaching her 31 pupils online but said: “I live in horror of losing my children.”
Conveying the same message that Ukraine was fighting to defend the whole of Europe, she added: “Please give us a chance to live in our land. Today us, tomorrow you.”
Neo-natal doctor and university teacher Olena Kostluk from Kyiv, said “the first taste of war changed my life. I had a plan as a scientist. This day destroyed everything around me as a person.” Speaking from her car in a darkened street, she described how she moved first to Transcarpathia in western Ukraine to provide medical and psychiatric support for displaced persons, then to Lithuania for a year to help organise material and psychological support for mothers who had fled abroad with newborn babies, before she returned to Kyiv.
Eminent speakers on both sides of the Atlantic from the Steering Group of the initiative urged Western democracies to rally behind Ukraine to preserve their own peace and freedom. “When people ask me why I support Ukraine, I always say it is because I don’t want my children to have to go to war,” said former Croatian president Kolinda Grabar-Kitarov.
Former NATO deputy secretary general Rose Gottemoeller emphasised that contrary to some reports, Ukraine was not losing the war. While ground combat was stalemated, Kyiv had denied Russia sea control and restored vital grain exports, while also denying Moscow air superiority. “The Ukrainian military is holding its own in key aspects and they are very much deserving of our support,” she said.
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Former president of Lithuania and Trustee of Friends of Europe
The former president of Lithuania and European commissioner, Dalia Grybauskaitė currently serves as the Co-Chair of the United Nations High-Level Panel on International Financial Accountability, Transparency and Integrity (FACTI). Previously, she has chaired the Council of Women World Leaders and held several positions as a Lithuanian diplomat and politician, including as the country’s finance minister, as well as minister plenipotentiary at the Lithuanian embassy to the United States and at the Lithuanian Mission to the EU. Notably, Grybauskaitė played a key role in improving the relations between Lithuania and the EU as the deputy chief negotiator of Lithuania’s Association Agreement with the EU.

Chair of Clingendael Institute, Dutch Minister of State, former NATO secretary general, former Dutch foreign minister, and Trustee of Friends of Europe
Jaap de Hoop Scheffer is a Dutch politician who notably served as the 11th Secretary-General of NATO. He also previously worked for the Ministry of Foreign Affairs and the Dutch delegation of the NATO headquarters in Brussels. He now works as President of the Advisory Council on International Affairs (AIV) of the Netherlands, an independent body which advises government and parliament on foreign policy. Furthermore, he was appointed to the Pieter Kooijmans Chair for Peace, Law and Security at Leiden University.

Steven C. Házy Lecturer at Stanford University, former deputy secretary general of NATO, former under secretary for arms control and international security at the U.S. Department of State, and Trustee of Friends of Europe
Rose Gottemoeller is the Steven C. Házy Lecturer at Stanford University’s Freeman Spogli Institute for International Studies and its Center for International Security and Cooperation. Before joining Stanford, Gottemoeller was the deputy secretary-general of NATO. Prior to NATO, she served for nearly five years as the under secretary for arms control and international security at the United States Department of State, advising the Secretary of State on arms control, nonproliferation and political-military affairs. While assistant secretary of state for arms control, verification and compliance, she was the chief US negotiator of the New Strategic Arms Reduction Treaty (New START) with the Russian Federation.

Former president of Croatia and Trustee of Friends of Europe
Kolinda Grabar-Kitarović, the first female President of Croatia, has extensive experience in politics, diplomacy, and security. She served as Croatia’s first female Minister of Foreign Affairs, Ambassador to the United States, and Assistant Secretary General of NATO. Grabar-Kitarović is a member of the International Olympic Committee, GLOBSEC International Advisory Council, and various non-profit boards, including Friends of Europe and the US Atlantic Council. She is involved with the UN Alliance of Civilizations, serves as Global Ambassador for Immunization for Women Political Leaders, and is chair emerita of the Council of Women World Leaders. She also co-chairs the Global Preparedness Monitoring Board and is a member of the Committee of Independent Eminent Persons of the European Parliament.

Co-Founder of the Pirogov First Volunteer Mobile Hospital (PFVMH) and Founder & Chairman of the Center for Constitutional Design
A constitutional lawyer, researcher and activist Gennadiy Druzenko co-founded the PFVMH as a response to the Maidan protest to tend to the wounded protesters. Since Russia’s full-scale invasion of Ukraine, the PFVMH has been operating in areas of active combat, providing medical care for thousands of people. Druzenko is also the Founder and Chairman of the Ukrainian NGO Center for Constitutional Design. Previously, he was a visiting researcher at the Center for Constitutional Democracy and a Government Commissioner in the Cabinet of Ministers of Ukraine.

Neonatologist and professor at the Shupyk National Healthcare University

Belgian Minister of Foreign Affairs, European Affairs and Foreign Trade and the Federal Cultural Institutions

Country Director for Ukraine, Moldova and Poland and Acting Director of the Europe and Central Asia Region at UNOPS
Tim Lardner currently serves as Acting Director of the Europe and Central Asia Region and UNOPS Country Director for Ukraine, Moldova and Poland. Previously, he was the UNOPS Country Director for Somalia. Before joining UNOPS, Lardner served as Chief of the UN Mine Action Service in South Sudan as well as the UN Development Programme’s Chief Technical Advisor to the government of Lao PDR. In addition to significant experience with NGOs and the UN, he has also worked in private, academic and commercial sectors.

Mayor of Irpin

2022 Nobel Peace Prize Laureate and 2023 European Young Leader (EYL40)
A human rights lawyer and defender, Oleksandra Matviichuk is the first-ever Ukrainian Nobel Peace Prize Laureate. She was awarded the esteemed prize for her work with the Center for Civil Liberties on democratic reform campaigns in Ukraine and the OSCE region. The organisation has been documenting war crimes committed by Russian troops since the initial invasion of Crimea, but also develops legislative changes, exercises public oversight over law enforcement agencies and the judiciary, and implements international solidarity programmes. Matviichuk coordinated the Euromaidan SOS civic initiative to provide legal assistance following the government’s crackdown on Euromaiden protesters, which has since monitored political persecution in the illegally occupied regions of Crimea and Donbas. Matviichuk has led similar campaigns, including #LetMyPeopleGo and #SaveOlegSentsov, to fight for the release of political prisoners detained by Russian authorities. Having authored reports for several United Nations bodies, the Council of Europe, the EU, the OSCE and the International Criminal Court, she received the Democracy Defender Award and is the country’s first female candidate to be nominated to the UN Committee against Torture.

President of Teneo France and former Chair of Global Public Affairs of Hill & Knowlton
Prior to his current position at Teneo, Philippe Maze-Sencier served as Chair of Global Public Affairs of Hill & Knowlton Strategies (H+K) and Managing Director at McLarty Associates’ Brussels and Washington DC offices. He has been working at the nexus of policy, government relations and communications on transatlantic issues and oversaw operations in India, the Middle East and Africa in various sectors ranging from aerospace to energy to defence. Previously, Maze-Sencier held roles at the United Nations High Commissioner for Human Rights in Geneva, and at the delegation of the European Commission in Washington DC.

University student from Kharkiv

Ukrainian Deputy Prime Minister for European and Euro-Atlantic Integration, and Minister of Justice
Olha Stefanishyna currently serves as the Deputy Prime Minister for European and Euro-Atlantic Integration, and Minister of Justice of Ukraine. Previously, she worked as Director and Director-General of the Government Office for European and Euro-Atlantic Integration of the Secretariat of the Cabinet of Ministers of Ukraine.

Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist for the Associated Press (AP)
Vasylisa Stepanenko is a Ukrainian freelance journalist and video producer whose work has focused on human rights and social justice issues. She shared the 2023 Pulitzer Prize for Public Service with two colleagues for her work with the AP covering the Russian invasion of Ukraine. Born in Kharkiv, Stepanenko began working with the AP one month before Russia invaded the country and travelled to Mariupol with the AP to cover the brutal siege of the city.

CEO of restaurants and night clubs - turned-volunteer helping forcibly displaced people and orphanages in Transcarpathia

Middle school teacher from the Poltava Region
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